What have we learned from fairy tales, disney movies and cartoons?
To trust strangers (Timone and Pumba)
Fall in love at first sight
Put love above all else
Sing about how you feel
Want what you can't have
Live with 7 strange men
All dogs go to heaven
Don't sit on walls because you will break and no one will be able to fix you
Don't cry wolf
Honey is the yummiest of all yummies
Surround yourself with people that are as weird as you are
Make friends with animals, they can talk
Enemies can become best friends
Take risks
The Lady will fall in love with the Tramp
All the woman are perfect looking
A spoon full os sugar makes the medicine go down
Believing your dream is a reality
to be continued..
Wednesday, May 26, 2010
Monday, May 24, 2010
Poor Wishes
"You can't always get what you want. But if you try sometimes, you get what you need"
Needing and wanting, are they meant to be different? Why? Because we don't want what we necessarily need? I think we want things because we need them. But we don't allow ourselves to believe we need it because of what can happen to us if we don't get it. When you want someone to love you, you make yourself believe that it is selfish or not worth thinking that you need it. Because needing love is weak right? Desperate? Needing success is bullshit right? Because you can live happily ever after being mediocre or satisfied with "okay-ness". fuck that. I think needing things make them more powerful. Makes you more powerful. Let yourself need something and feel like you are dying when you don't get it. Then you'll need something even more and fight even harder just so you don't feel that way ever again. If you don't ache for something and sacrifice a part of you to get it then you're not really living. Who gives a shit if you fail. Stop worrying about who will judge you if you don't get it or if you don't deserve it. The only person that can judge you is yourself, and even then try not to. It's easier said than done and this is not coming from a person that is good at this. But I believe that it is okay to allow yourself to need people, things, goals, accomplishments, love, jealousy, hate, food, chocolate, clothes,sex, money, hunger, loneliness. Yes, sometimes you need things that make you feel like shit or selfish. That's what makes needing things that are "good" for you even more worth while. Who is to say what's good or bad anyway. But thats another conversation.
Needing and wanting, are they meant to be different? Why? Because we don't want what we necessarily need? I think we want things because we need them. But we don't allow ourselves to believe we need it because of what can happen to us if we don't get it. When you want someone to love you, you make yourself believe that it is selfish or not worth thinking that you need it. Because needing love is weak right? Desperate? Needing success is bullshit right? Because you can live happily ever after being mediocre or satisfied with "okay-ness". fuck that. I think needing things make them more powerful. Makes you more powerful. Let yourself need something and feel like you are dying when you don't get it. Then you'll need something even more and fight even harder just so you don't feel that way ever again. If you don't ache for something and sacrifice a part of you to get it then you're not really living. Who gives a shit if you fail. Stop worrying about who will judge you if you don't get it or if you don't deserve it. The only person that can judge you is yourself, and even then try not to. It's easier said than done and this is not coming from a person that is good at this. But I believe that it is okay to allow yourself to need people, things, goals, accomplishments, love, jealousy, hate, food, chocolate, clothes,sex, money, hunger, loneliness. Yes, sometimes you need things that make you feel like shit or selfish. That's what makes needing things that are "good" for you even more worth while. Who is to say what's good or bad anyway. But thats another conversation.
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